I know a lot of swingers take breaks from the lifestyle, especially in the beginning. But, to what extent are your breaks?. Do you agree not to play with anyone? Or do you not meet anyone? Or do you completely get away from all aspects of the lifestyle including, viewing your favorite networking websites and discussing things with your spouse?.
As much as the swinging lifestyle can be a source of smiles for many couples, it is not always the best option for a relationship. Many different reasons can make couples wonder if they should stop swinging or take a break from it.
Me and Danuthri were also taking a little break from the lifestyle (and still coming off from it, to be honest). So thought of writing about our experiences of taking a brief break from this lifestyle.
The decision to take a break itself is important, but it’s also important how a couple works together leading up to that decision. A couple should think about how they handle their decision making and consider what happens after they make the decision.
Beginning of the year, Danuthri was going through some changes at her office. Her working hours were already odd even before she took up this new role. But, she had to spend a couple of weeks just to get adjusted to her new schedule. With home chores and work, we had little time for ourselves.
The stress put us in a position to lose interest in swinging to be honest. But we both knew that it was something temporary and that we want to bounce back from it. But at the beginning itself, we both agreed that we will not play with anyone until we fully recover from this. And not to meet anyone since we cannot genuinely commit to anything kinky afterward.
Simply put, our schedule was the culprit. But we never lost interest in keeping the swinging discussion between us as usual. We played with each other often and brought the swinging chats on to bed. We still had fantasies of playing with our favorite couples soon.
We both supported each other during the past couple of months and now, again slowly opening our doors to more exciting discussions with like-minded couples.
We are now thinking of starting this off again with one of our favorite couples in this lifestyle.
So if any of you are thinking of taking a little break from the lifestyle for whatever the reasons may be, don't worry. Take things easy. Talk it out with your partner and make a plan. A lot of couples take small and long breaks in between and come back with a bigger appetite.
Hoping to see all you kinky couples out there soon.
Much love, Todd & Danuthri
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