So after several years been in this lifestyle, me and Danuthri were talking about hosting a couple by ourselves. All this while, we didn't have the necessities required to host by ourselves but we are hoping that things could change soon.
While we are getting ourselves prepared, I thought of writing a post today about one of the most popular forms of gatherings within the Swinging Lifestyle; House parties. These gatherings offer swingers a chance to meet other like-minded couples in a comfortable setting and if the mood strikes have sex. More often than not, house parties are the mid-range between meet and greets and total hotel takeovers.
How To Get In the Door
Typically, a local couple will host a group of swingers at their own house. There is usually a screening process to eliminate any outsiders that might not be members of the swinging community. In our experience, most couples that want to attend a house party have to be vouched for by another couple.
One of the best hosts we've met in the community is "ColomboSwingers". We always had the best time whenever we attended their gatherings. I think one reason for that is, you feel safe since any couple who they invite are always vetted by another couple in their circle.
What you should and shouldn't
If you are invited to a house party, please answer any questions that the hosts may have for you. Be genuine in your responses. Keep in mind that hosts are just trying to find couples that will be a good fit for their parties and protect their privacy — remember you are going to their home!
House parties usually have a standard list of rules such as this:
- Ask first to touch and play with other couples
- No means no!
- Please don’t drink and drive!
- Be respectful of our home. Be courteous and act like an adult. No excessive intoxication or illegal drugs will be permitted.
- Only approved couples may attend our events.
When you attend a house party or just meeting another couple at their house, please remember to take something. Nothing expensive or fancier. Maybe a bottle of wine would even be sufficient. Just to say thank you to the hosts' couple for opening up their house and inviting you and your partner.
What To Wear
House parties can range from very casual to formal. Always ask the host if there is a theme? Is it casual?
Most gatherings where only 2 couples meet won't have a theme; unless you want to have some role-playing. In those instances, then go for the sexy/classy look. Don’t show up to a house party looking like a slob! Wear something that makes you feel confident, but will draw others towards you. You will want to be comfortable, but use this as an excuse to get dolled up a bit.
You can find some sexy lingerie by scrolling through midnightdivas or Odel.
What It Looks Like
When you first arrive at a house party, usually the host will greet you. If not, ask for someone to point you in the direction of the host or hosts. They will be your first point of contact in order to start your night. If you are going with a couple that’s already been, then they may also act as your initial guide. With many house parties that me and Danuthri have attended, the hosts have given us a guided tour and explained rules and general considerations for attendees.
But if you are meeting just another couple at their house, the settings would be a bit different since you will not have many couples attending. But the hosts would greet you and guide you with house rules as usual.
Playrooms will usually have condoms, lube, and tissues for guests to use. A common practice is to replace sheets on any beds when you are done having sex. Therefore, you may see a stack of clean sheets and a bin to put used sheets in. This provides a level of cleanliness to shared play spaces. In the bathroom, you should find individual mouth wash bottles, hand sanitizer, and other toiletries.
We are also preparing this setup, so we know hosting is not something to be taken lightly and definitely not easy.
By following these suggestions and doing a little more tailored research on the event you wish to attend, you and your partner should have a night to remember. As always, keep each other at the forefront of the experience and keep an open mind as you take in the event. If you do this, you never know what kind of sexy times you might have at a swingers' house party.
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