I know it's been a while I've written any new post here. After the whole lockdown was lifted back in June, we both started running to recover the three months we lost since April. Times were a bit difficult since we had to put a lot of attention on our livelihood and the work-life balance was something we forgot these couple of months. Not that we didn't have time for an occasional outing in the "lifestyle" 😉🤣. I will keep those for a later post. Promise..
So we recently hosted a Q&A session on our Instagram account, and I would like to say that we were surprised by the number of questions which was thrown at us. It was refreshing to see how many people are open to express their interests in this lifestyle. Yes, you will find one or two shitbags here and there who likes to be a bit cocky. But most people who interacted have asked some good questions.
So thought of restarting our blog with a post with some of the questions asked from us and the answers we provided for each. If there is any other question you would like to ask, please add a comment to this post. We have enabled anonymous comments as well so that you can comment without thinking about leaking your real-life information here.
Let's get on with the questions then.
Q: How's the swinging experience so far?
A: Well, it's been one good ride so far. We've met some exciting people here and have had some wonderful time. Since we give preference to couples, our experience has been a bit of a vibrant one. We've made some good friends from our network and it's refreshing to talk to someone about this lifestyle or our intimate side of life without anyone judging.
Q: Why don't you both go on live with masks on and do a live Q&A session?
A: Currently, we don't have a proper set up to host a live Q&A. And to be honest, not too sure if Sri Lanka is ready to accept it as well. But this is something we like to do someday. What we would love to do in the meantime is to create an open environment for couples to connect and see the positive sides of an ethical non-monogamous lifestyle.
Q: My wife and I always fantasize about it. but we are not even sure how to start?
A: We've had this question asked from us so many times and to tell the truth, we have personally been in the same situation several years back as well. Like 'most' of the couples who came into the swinging lifestyle, it was I who suggested the idea to the missus. Even though there were some sudden negative responses from her side, she was interested and open to listen and learn more about this lifestyle. Instead of telling what you need to do, I will tell what we both did.
We started reading up a lot about the positives and negatives of the lifestyle. We talked to each other about what we both want to achieve out of this. Trust me, communication plays a very crucial part of your relationship. We watched movies together. We listened to other podcasts and personalities in this lifestyle to get their insights. We did roleplay in our intimate times.
I will do a separate post on this; hopefully soon.
If you also would like to ask your question, you can add a comment below or drop us a message on Instagram.
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