This is one hard question for all the newbie couples in Sri Lanka. Where can you find people who can be a match for you?. Unfortunately, the reality is that there aren't many options here. A couple of years back when I and Danuthri were starting out in this lifestyle, we were in the same dilemma. So we thought of writing a post about the ways we used to connect with likeminded couples to build up our network.
srilankaswingers.com
Sri Lanka swingers website is one of the very first sites we joined. If you google "swingers in Sri Lanka", most likely, this website will be your first search result. Managed by Hubpeople Limited based in the Isle of Man, this website has been operating for some time now.
Pros: Their platform is quite userfriendly for a newbie to navigate. You can signup in minutes and search for thousands of potential matches. Every user has a verification status (Not Verified, Email Verified, User Verified and Admin Verified) so you can see how genuine the user could be online. They have a good review system so you can verify a user through the reviews as well.
Cons: Their free account has restrictions like unable to view certain images, can't send messages to other users and can only respond to messages from VIP users. Tweaking your profile settings and preferences could be a bit time-consuming.
Price: Free membership with limited features and VIP membership with full access. VIP plans start from 21.66USD for six months to one month for 39.95USD.
theadulthub.com
Again managed by Hubpeople Limited, Adult Hub is, in fact, a cross-platform which shares user accounts with srilankaswingers.com.
Pros: Adult Hub is also quite userfriendly to navigate. The signup process is effortless and can set up your basic account in minutes. Searching for matches is easy since their account filtering process has several options so that you can find more refined users who match your requirement. Just as srilankaswingers.com, even in Adult Hub, every user has a verification status (Not Verified, Email Verified, User Verified and Admin Verified).
Cons: Their free account has restrictions like unable to view certain images, can't send messages to other users and can only respond to messages from VIP users. Tweaking your profile settings and preferences could be a bit time-consuming.
Price: Free membership with limits and VIP membership with full access. VIP plans start from 21.66USD for six months to one month for 39.95USD.
SDC - Seek, Discover, Connect - SDC.com
Managed by SDC media, LLC out of North Carolina, SDC is one of the oldest dating websites who has a good has a footing in Sri Lanka; they have been online for more than a decade now.
Pros: Good stable platform to find local matches. Their 'Laidar' feature is nice to find nearby users who are online. Their filtering process is convenient. A complete user profile could give a lot of information about their preferences.
Cons: SDC Android app could be a bit outdated as it lags a bit when using. Free account limitations are available even in SDC. You have to be a full member to review (validate) other users.
Price: Free accounts and their full membership plans starts from 24.95USD monthly to 250USD lifetime plan.
Facebook is a good way since anyone and everyone is on this platform. But the drawbacks of using Facebook is privacy and security. If you are using your personal profile, means everyone on the platform can see what you comment and interact with.
Recently one of our Instagram followers messaged us to ask if we have come across a certain Facebook page which organizes swinger parties. Apparently, they charge you a fee for entrance (which is totally ok in my opinion) but you have to provide some personally identifiable information like name and location. (to tell the truth, there are some swinging partners we regularly meet whom we still haven't shared our real names even. Everyone still respects 'don't ask, don't tell')
Another popular social media platform that you can use to connect with likeminded people. But be mindful not to post any nudity or sexual content on your feed as your account can get blocked.
Unlike a dating website, just because you created an Instagram account or a Facebook account, will not get your matches. The process will take time with social media to filter the people you want to connect with and take it to the next level.
Tinder
We've had people mentioning that they use the tinder app as well to find locals. Personally have not used this. But I guess you could give it a try.
So these are the ones we used and still using to build up our network. If we have missed out on anything, please do let us know or add a comment below.
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